How to Forgive Someone Who Accused You Falsely

 




How to Forgive Someone Who Accused You Falsely

 

Being human means we're wired with a longing to be seen and understood. It's exasperating to be accused of something we're not doing, especially when there's no surefire way to defend ourselves. Being falsely accused of something you did not do can feel like psychological torture.

It's important, to be honest with yourself; Here, I'm not saying that what you were accused of is true, however, maybe there is something you did or said, and that is what the accuser used as a stepping stone to build that accusation. Maybe you are emotionally or too physically attached to someone (probably a Lady, if its about marital affairs) which gave them the chance to accuse you falsely. Agree to yourself that you gave them the chance. Then the next is:

Remembering Who You Are; Perhaps the most important thing when being falsely accused is to stay connected to your version of the truth rather than allow yourself to be defined by how you're being viewed. It is very challenging to affirm ourselves and maintain our dignity when we're not being seen accurately. You know whatever you are being accused of is not true and you know yourself, stop explaining yourself to people; the more you do that you allow your enemies to judge you and get more facts to use. This is because, you can't say the same things all the time when you are explaining yourself, so you will be making mistakes during talking, and that will be used against you by your accusers.

After you have done all that and also built yourself with all the strategic steps in my other post (how to forgive), remember Jesus Christ the Son of God, your master and Lord, was accused of casting out demons by Beelzebub (Luke 11:15), and even on the cross, he said: "Father forgive them for they don't know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34). He was even accused of breaking the law of Moses and blasphemy against God.

Anytime you are accused falsely, know that there are great opportunities and blessings ahead of you, and the devil wants to frustrate your life because of that, so that you miss your position to receive. Stand on your ground through forgiveness. False accusation is the last weapon of the devil against your life because he has tried many forms already and did not succeed. Stand firm, don't allow the devil to overcome you through your anger and bitterness (Ephesians 4:27). Stay away from anything you are too glued to that they used as a stepping stone to accuse you falsely, stay calm, and wait for the Lord's vindication. 

Then with a forgiving heart declare forgiveness for the accuser and smile while you wish him or her well. When you do that you break the claws of the devil.

You are more than a conqueror already, in Jesus'name... Amen.

 

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  1. UnknownApril 23, 2021 at 10:06 PM

    Atta papa
    A friend of mine has been accusing me of what I knew nothing about it, I have been trying to explain things to him to get the understanding of everything, he has been complaining battery to people of hearing such from me which I see in in different way. He has been insulting me anytime I call him. He has been to house made complain to my mother to not come closer to and time I sees him and never try to call him. With all this he has been to my house throwing a lot of insult on me and used of some words of curses. Please my question is do I still have to let contact him or leave him leave my normal life bcos I don't have anything bad in mind against him

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    1. Augustine Tetteh MelchizedekApril 24, 2021 at 4:02 AM

      Don't explain yourself again and again, if you know someone he respects so much, inform that person to talk to him. If he can't still forgive you, leave him and move on with your life. God is your witness.

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